who we are
informed consent is sexy.
that’s why we think transparency is so important. we want you to know who we are and what we’re about, so it’s easier to make a conscious choice about co-creating unabashed with us.
** new staff section below **
your producers
MiaMore (they/she)
MiaMore is a gender chaotic kinky being who experiences BDSM as a diverse tool for self-exploration and creative expression. since 2013, they have been publicly involved in kink/BDSM as a community member, and in more recent years as an educator and event producer. as an educator, MiaMore encourages participation and interactive demonstrations so students can build skills that are imbued with their own personal imagination and authentic personality. much like her gender expression and identity, they consider their rope and play style as chaotic.
MiaMore is not a stranger to creating queer spaces. their mindset is, if I can't find a space in which I fit, I will make one. they ran a queer poly discussion group, helped organize Queer Only play parties, and more recently was the brains behind Studio Friction's FabLab, a Queer only rope practice/play space. MiaMore is excited to bring her creative, chaotic, and welcoming energy to aid in the success of Unabashed.
Sir Piper (they/them)
Sir Piper is a radiant skin bag filled with microbes. they wake up every day and are like, “WTF?! this is amazing.”
Piper’s been a member of the queer, kink, and poly scenes for two decades, but they’ve only recently come out of their shell and started actualizing their toppy, dommy, sadistic side.
they have a background in producing queer and radical performances, parties, festivals, and first dates. Piper seeks to foster safe(r) spaces and experiences that challenge oppressive systems.
BearJew (they/them)
BearJew (they/them) is a white, Jewish, trans and non-binary person who works in anti-oppression education. BearJew is deeply grateful that their kink-community journey has been almost exclusively in queer and trans spaces, starting in New York and New England more than eight years ago. kink helped teach BearJew not only how to trust another person, but how to trust themself. they believe in the possibility for kink to teach, transform, heal, and foster a damn good time. BearJew lives in Denver with their two scruffy dogs.
Z (kin/they)
one of the magical things queerness has taught Z is that kin is an aspiring non-Euclidian mass of tentacles and book knowledge on a tiny blue dot hurtling through a universe whose expansiveness kin can't even begin to imagine. to them, this means everything is full of possibility - and they're expanding their idea of what's possible every single day. kin is also a Black queer touch enthusiast and justice and equity advocate centering liberation and healing through relationships with ourselves, other humans, and the more-than-human world. over half a decade into their journey in the wonderful world of kink (and still starry-eyed about it all), they bring communications skills, a touch of tech wizardry, and educational roots in transformative justice, Black liberation, and emergence to the unabashed team.
Mistrexx Fenrir (they/she)
There is an orenda that is curated into community, especially entering the kink sphere, filled with wonders, curiosites and connection - and that is what drove them towards unabashed and kept her coming back since its inception - and to move halfway across the country for the radical visioning and crafting that this wonderful con offers every year since! In their free time, they teach a plethora of classes around Restorative and Transformative Justice, transmuting her lived experience, knowledge and insight around healing justice for clients, communities and collectives around the globe with their workshops and real talks for the past three years. Mistrexx Fenrir, being a Black non-binary trans woman and radiant sunflower, visualizes care, compassion, de-escalation, mediation, conflict resolution and disruption of power differentials in, around and within her galaxy of cosmic deliciousness.
your volunteer staff
Philip (AKA Volunteer Daddy, he/him)
Philip is a Denver queer, poet, collage artist, florist, handyman, and emcee who hosts open mics and variety shows. In 2023 he launched Bound By The Beat, blending live jazz and shibari communities for a unique evening. This year he took over as Troop Daddy for Little Scouts Troop 5280. He also hosts every 4th Friday for the long running weekly poetry open mic at The Mercury Cafe. Find his podcast “From My Open Mic” on Spotify for live recordings. When asked what super power he would like he replied “to give superpowers to those ignorant of their own power.”
Philip creates our volunteer slots and leads the volunteers over the course of con weekend.
Miss Alex (she/they)
She is a Mistress, proud Owner, Mommy, and Practitioner. They love all things sharps and bloody from both sides, but it is her passion for puzzles, psychology, communication, and expression that drives her kink. She is most happy interrogating and questioning the why and how of what we all do. Her favorite kink is helping to facilitate a community for all; one that is filled with introspection, intentionality, transparency, and free from shame.
Miss Alex sources + builds our dungeon equipment, arranges and labels our dungeon space, and disassembles the dungeon at the end of the weekend.
Kit Amethyst (they/them)
Kit Amethyst is a neurodivergent, non-binary, queer artist, educator, and kinkster in the mental health field. Having been polyamorous for over a decade and identified as a kinkster since 2018, they come into our kink spaces with an openness, curiosity and excitement for everyone's unique experiences. Their special interest is understanding the why's of the things we do, just as much as the how's. They are passionate about supporting individuals in discovering their own wild, authentic truths.
Kit assists Miss Alex with all her dungeon needs.
Whimsy (pronoun agnostic)
Whimsy (pronoun agnostic), is not entirely unlike an intelligent shade of the colour blue. A freak with the sheets, they have an ability to turn anything into a spreadsheet. It is whimsy’s organizational skills that keeps the dungeon crew running. He rejects labels and boxes, instead preferring to just be whimsy. You will often find her coloring and starting (but never finishing) various craft projects. It loves stuffies, sharps, and the smell of sawdust and leather, and will always be willing to indulge in discussing these shared interests. Adored by zir partners and friends, whimsy’s heart is as big as his massive boot collection.
Whimsy assists Miss Alex with all their dungeon needs.
Ten (they/he)
Ten (they/he) is a genderqueer, neurodivergent international educator who subverts capitalism through van life. Ten takes their talents on tour, captivating audiences with rope bondage performances at various shows throughout the year. Ten isn't just passionate about education and performance; they're also deeply involved in the rope community, helping organize and create NARIX, the North American Rope Information Exchange. Their superpower? An exceptional eye for detail and penchant for organization. Just be prepared for a high-energy raccoon!
Ten supports unabashed through the creation and uploading of social media posts.
Q (she/her/Ma’am)
Integrating spirituality, self-awareness, 12-step recovery, and moon manifestation into BDSM and kink is Q’s passion. She is living and continuing to co-create a life for herself that is beyond her wildest dreams. It is her part to share her experience and gifts with her community and to exemplify her tenet “evolve and elevate.”
In 2012, Q began an 8-year education in BDSM and kink. Her educator provided her with a foundation rooted in personal responsibility, spirituality, relationship building, and respect for the process. She has experienced healing from childhood trauma and deep spiritual connections through engaging in BDSM. Additionally, she has uncovered that there is more healing to be had because of play.
Her purpose is to educate the kink community in self-awareness, introspection, and reflection, and how thoughts and actions impact those around us. Knowledge is no good if kept all to oneself.
Q’s profession is in clinical STI and sexual health training. In her spare time, she enjoys laughing uncontrollably as she administers CBT. She is an avid spanker/spankee, energy healer, career coach, passionate Pegger, and a Sadist in training. And as always, she looks forward to learning more about herself along the way.
new to the unabashed team this year, Q supports your presenters through communication, organization, and overall coordination of the presenter experience.
Rose
bio coming soon
new to the unabashed team this year, Rose is supporting unabashed by making sure we all get fed, and is the lead on all things food-related.